Discover Proven Strategies
That Increase Cooperation
and Connection Without
Damage For Every Age
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Are you exhausted by the constant power struggles, defiance, temper tantrums, bad attitude, and the cycle of yelling and nagging?
From toddlers to teens, these are the exact problems my guide is designed to solve. I know how exhausting it feels to be where you are because I've been there myself.
Hello, I'm Arabella Hille. I am an experienced Parenting Educator qualified in Behavioral Science. I'm also a mother, former teacher, author, and founder of Victorious Parenting.
I've helped over 82,963 caregivers reduce defiance and restore peace in their homes, and I can help you too.
I understand the challenges caregivers face with children who display disruptive behavior and emotional volatility.
Every problem I've solved in this book is one I've personally experienced and overcome.
How different would your home feel with less conflict and more peace?
This is your moment - It's time to become the leader you were born to be.
- Discover how to discipline successfully without losing control.
- Learn a natural way of encouraging good behavior that is both loving and effective.
- Understand how to regulate your emotions better using my what to do when you lose it tools.
Disciplining Without Damage is not about trying to remain calm 24/7, denying the range of emotions you experience, or letting your kids run wild.
Instead, it's about moving towards positive leadership by gaining the right tools to become a victorious parent who is in control without being controlling.
- Turn your child's defiant behavior around using my scientific battle-tested strategies designed for every age.
- Lead with confidence and strength.
- Reduce power struggles, improve communication, increase connection, and decrease defiance.
You deserve to feel empowered and confident in your parenting.
This book adopts a whole-person perspective, delving deep into the root causes of behavioral issues, providing practical strategies, and teaching you how to address them.
✔️ Easy to follow action steps that get results.
✔️ For parents, step-parents, grandparents, teachers, childcare workers, and more.
✔️ Suitable for all ages 1-19 years old.
You will also receive bonus resources and continued support from myself and my wonderful parenting community to maximize your success.
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What age is this for?
✔️ My book is suitable for all ages 1-19 years old with chapters for each age group packed with exercises. Please check out the chapter breakdowns below.
You will also get ongoing support from me where you can ask me questions. Children of all ages benefit from having a loving parent who disciplines them without damage.
Is this suitable for neurodivergent children?
✔️ Absolutely! The techniques in my book were designed to be adaptable. I have a lot of readers with neurodivergent children, who have found value from this.
You will also get ongoing support from me where you can ask me questions.
All children can benefit from having caregivers who discipline them without damage.
Are there practical activities involved?
✔️ Yes, I have incorporated practical activities to enhance your learning experience.
My book goes beyond theoretical knowledge by providing end-of-chapter exercises and real-life examples that allow you to apply the concepts and strategies directly.
How is it delivered, and how long will I have access?
✔️ You have lifetime access and will need an active internet connection.
Available anytime, anywhere, on any device.
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My audiobook app functions like Audible, but so much better, not just in function but in size as well.
It won't take up a lot of room on your device. You can skip forward/back, listen on a lock screen, and access supplementary materials such as chapter time stamps.
Receive messages from me, rate and review the audiobook, create playlists, discover my other materials, set a timer, and adjust the speed.
One of the best features is that you can download the audiobook for offline use within the app. So if you're on the go you can listen to it wherever you are.
Will I have support when needed?
✔️ Absolutely! I am committed to providing you with support throughout your learning journey.
You will have access to my dedicated support team via email, who will be available to answer any questions or concerns you may have regarding the course content or activities.
Additionally, you'll be invited to join my private Facebook group, where you can connect with other course participants, share insights, and receive support.
I believe in creating a supportive community that fosters learning and growth.
Is there a hardcopy available?
My book is available as both an eBook and an audiobook. You will also get ongoing support.
It is sold exclusively on my website.
There are no hard copies available.
Why isn't this on Amazon or Audible?
I've chosen to self-host my books to provide a unique and personalized experience directly to my customers. This includes interactive supplementary materials such as embedded videos.
I've developed my own app and web portal to align perfectly with my customer's needs and my goals, offering a superior experience beyond what third-party platforms provide.
This approach ensures the highest quality and delivers features specifically tailored to my audience's needs.
Here are just a few examples of what you can expect:
✔️ Read the ebook in your browser through my secure online portal. Save your place, access thumbnails and an interactive table of contents (all devices), print, enjoy page flip sounds, and take notes (desktop).
✔️ Listen to the audiobook through my secure online portal or mobile application, skip ahead or go back 30 seconds, save offline, adjust speed (mobile), and access supplementary materials (all devices).
✔️ Access materials not available elsewhere, including supplementary texts and bonus materials for a deeper dive.
✔️ Engage directly with me via the audiobook app, receive my parenting newsletter, and join my exclusive, and private Victorious Parenting community—a space dedicated to supporting your journey.
✔️ Take part in interactive Q&A sessions or polls within our community for a chance to be featured on my podcast, allowing for direct feedback and deeper engagement with my content.
✔️ Benefit from prompt and dedicated assistance provided by my team, ensuring a smooth and enjoyable experience.
✔️ I update my programs regularly and provide them to existing customers at no extra cost.
Choosing self-hosting reflects my commitment to enhancing your reading and listening journey, safeguarding my content, and connecting with my audience globally in a meaningful way.
Is there a sample?
Thank you for your interest in exploring a sample! Both the ad that brought you here and this website showcase my writing style.
If you are on a mobile device, zoom into the images you can see samples of the book.
If you find the content on the site engaging and it speaks to you, I'm confident you'll enjoy the book just as much!
Is this program ABA based?
No, none of my materials are ABA (applied behavior analysis) based. This book is grounded in the latest peer-reviewed scientific research in this field and is designed to provide an evidence-based approach to disciplining children without damage.
Is this a subscription?
No. I do not have subscriptions, they are a hassle for both my customers and team.
All my materials are one-off payments.
Any upgrades I make after your purchase are delivered to you at no extra cost.
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Highly Recommended
"I just finished your audiobook
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Reduction in Anger
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Chapter Breakdowns
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Ch.1 Disciplining Without Damage
✔️ Learn the difference between discipline and punishment. Learn the secrets of behavioral communication and why kids lie. Discover the history of discipline along with tools to bring order out of chaos without punishment.
Ch.2 The 4 Styles of Parenting
✔️ Are you,
Authoritarian
Authoritative
Permissive
, or Uninvolved?
Learn the 4 styles of parenting and the biggest mistakes we all make and how to avoid them for peace in the home.
Ch.3 Obedience & Conformity
✔️ What are your goals when disciplining? Discover the difference between obedience and conformity and why conformity is the key element to long-lasting behavioral change. I will teach you how to use this overlooked tool to get your home back on track.
Ch.4 What to do when you lose it
✔️ Ever lost it at your kids only to feel guilty later? We've all been there. In this chapter, you'll learn some amazing tools on what to do if you lose them so that you can require your brain to become more proactive instead of reactive. These tools are helpful for teens too - not just for you.
Ch.5 How to manage defiant behavior
✔️ Learn how to calm your child down and what to do if they refuse to listen to you. Discover the hidden messages behind what your child's behavior is REALLY communicating. How to manage a strong-tempered child and more.
Ch 6. Toddlers 1-3 Years
✔️ The next chapters are age-specific chapters to learn more about your child in their current stage of development and how to manage their behavior effectively.
Ch 7. Preschoolers 3-5 Years
✔️ Learn what makes pre-schooler tick and what causes their bad behavior. I will teach you my top tips for managing it and developing a stronger bond with your child.
Ch 8. Middle Childhood 6-12 Years
✔️ Uncover the most common behaviors in middle childhood. Learn how to manage their tricky behavior and what causes it.
Ch 9. Teens 13-19 Years
✔️ The teen years can be tough but they do not need to be. Learn my top strategies for navigating the teen years. Learn how their brains and developing and how to reach them when they won't open up to you.
Ch.10 Self-esteem, Emotional Intelligence & Discipline
✔️ Learn how discipline, self-esteem, and emotional intelligence interacts and builds upon one another. Discover why emotional intelligence is key to emotional self-regulation.
Ch.11 Abusive Behavior
✔️ Learn how to manage abusive behavior in children and where it stems from.
Answer to
my Prayers
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how to respond to his outbursts!
Thank you for what you do
so parents like myself can help
our children and empower
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Disciplining and omg if I
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You've helped me on
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To me, it's vital to prepare
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I am on my way to
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Incredible
"This was incredible,
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I now realize why
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Discover what discipline truly is
and learn how to manage
your child's behavior without
yelling, fighting, screaming, shouting, smacking, or getting so frustrated
that you simply give up
and walk away.
Help your child manage
their own emotional state
and learn about the root causes
of their behavior.
So that you can have more
positive energy to give to your
child and to the other loved ones
in your life (including yourself).
This Book
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"I've had some good wins
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Thank you."
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Great Ideas
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some ideas how to handle
my 7 yr old son when it
comes to telling a lie."
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"I loved your eBook and
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So helpful thank you."
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This means parenting can feel like an exhausting uphill battle. Each child is unique, making it even harder to figure out how to...
Reach them when they won't open up to you?
Deal with behavioral difficulties that arise from low self-esteem?
Teach them how to stand up for themselves effectively?
Make sure you've given them the right tools to succeed in an ever-changing, chaotic world?
I understand,
I've been there
Sleepless nights wondering if you're doing the right thing.
The feeling of guilt and worry when your head hit's the pillow.
Wondering if there is a better way, an easier way.
It's not your fault. It's just hard to know where to begin.
That Was Me
10 Years Ago.
I wasn't satisfied with the fluff advice I was given.
I wasn't prepared to GAMBLE my child's future on hopes & dreams.
I wasn't going to RISK screwing up my child's life.
Hoping that he'll fare alright in the end.
I wanted my child to be...
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I knew what I had to do.
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